Many of the men who have been calling me lately have been telling me how they have waited so long to call me. For some it’s been years.  They read my profile on sites like cock control and finally they grow a big enough pair of balls to call me.  Yea, after two years, haha. Please don’t take this as complaining, because I’m not. I am just amazed at how long some people have waited to call me because of intimidation and they find out they are pleasantly surprised when they finally give into the anticipation of calling me.  There have been at least a dozen men whom I’ve spoken with rather recently who have claimed to have waited almost this long and how delighted they were once they finally spoke to me. Hmm perhaps they finally figured out that I wasn’t going to have my way with them and then bite their heads off like a black widow. Although, I can have that fatal blonde type of way about me.  I can be this way, that is true. But the reality of it all is that I just really enjoy playing cat and mouse with submissive men. I like the idea of swatting you with my cat-like paws, capturing you, releasing you, then pouncing on you again. You will always live under the illusion that you are free to escape when in fact, you are not.

So what am I saying here? I’m saying that don’t be such a scaredy-cat and run away from me because of my photos and my profiles. Listen to my audios, let me voice guide you. Read my blog post entries, get an idea of how my mind really works.  There is more than meets the eye here and don’t deny yourselves a good time with a Mistress who is highly misunderstood because of her irreverent sense of humor and slightly askew way of looking at things, or my mean stare as I look right through you in my photos. Those are intimidation tactics haha!

P.S. I’m going to come up with a pre-call questionnaire so that those of you who may not necessarily know what they want from a domme because they don’t have a lot of experience can easily convey your needs to me. I want to say that I am sorry that sometimes it is difficult for me to try and extract what it is you really want when you can’t always put it into words when you are on the phone. With a questionnaire I think that can give you some help with expressing your needs and helping me have a clearer understanding of you.

P.P.S. Lick my armpit bitches! HA HA HA HA HA HA!!

Nothing like having your Femdom Mistress in your pocket, right? It will be a constant reminder of the perfection you will never ever have. Perhaps I will be tempted to even create a ringtone for you to download and use on your phone, boy oh boy! Don’t get ahead of me yet though, I have to read up on how to learn how to create them first before I can do that.  But wouldn’t you love to have my voice on your phone? Demanding you to pick up the phone bitch boy before I bitch slap you, hehe?

Oh, before I forget… my foot bitch was over yesterday in the afternoon. He had bought me a few pairs of toe socks on Friday and I told him he would have to come back for his reward. So, Monday he came over to claim it. I wore them all weekend long, walking around the house in my socks hehe. I’m so devious. When he got here he was visibly excited and I told him to have a seat in the living room. I really do have to admit this is a fun game that I enjoy so very much because he is such eye candy to look at and to make him do these things is tooth achingly good.

I then proceeded to order him to take the socks off of my feet and hand them to me, which he did. With socks in hand, I balled them up and ordered him to open up and shoved them into his mouth and could not keep myself from laughing while looking at him gagged with my socks. Once he was good and gagged I ordered him on his back and trampled him with my smelly feet, and teased his cock by rubbing it over his pants. It was pure bliss for him I assure you he he he, the foot slut was in heaven and when I was done I let him jack off in front of me onto my toes. I think he might be in love ha ha ha!

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Disclaimer: I am not writing this article for one specific person. I had a conversation earlier this morning and the subject matter really got me thinking about situations like these where they can and do sometimes pop up.  I am not trying to undermine any other Mistresses who have slaves that serve them in real time, or on the phone. The intent of this article is to make you, dominant or submissive to think and to remember always… safe, sane, and consensual.

You know as much as I don’t really know all of my callers personally, I do care enough for them to sometimes worry if they aren’t being pushed too far into something that they are not really emotionally ready to handle.  Most responsible Mistresses when administering femdom fetish phone sex do adhere to ethics and make sure that they play responsibly. It can however be a bit of a challenge to know for sure if a sub is calling for advice because he is genuinely worried or because he just wants to play out the fear factor, and all of that is just fine.

As a phone mistress I do take everything that I hear with a grain of salt. I know there is a lot of shock value that gets said during a phone session to make the fantasy that much more thrilling and erotic. However sometimes there is a thrill that is being sought after where a lot of submissive men like to have photos taken and posted on the internet. Most of the time they are actually the ones responsible for posting them.  That’s just fine if that is what they choose to do and know that they have the ability to take them down.  We as Mistresses often talk about the submissive is here to please us and do as we say and that is for the most part correct. However, it does take a very responsible Mistress or Master for that matter to take that into their hands.

For all intents and purposes, you should never be exploited by a Mistress who values what she does and knows that exploitation is not what you need. Such things like creating paysite photo sessions of a submissive who is hired to do a fetish scene, perhaps feeling quite unsure about it but is urged to do it for the Mistress. There is a fine line that we walk when we have taken the responsibility for another into our hands. They look to us with trust and that line can be crossed all too easily for the sake of what we as Mistresses or Masters want.

I know for myself, whenever I am discussing a fantasy on a phone sex session, I am always mindful of what I am saying because a person’s subconscious is registering everything that person hears and thinks.  I just think that power can be a slippery slope and sometimes people can become drunk with it. Others can get lost in the bliss of giving up control. So everyone just keep in mind about all of the things that you do in the realm of fetish phone sex or real fetish sex that can potentially damage your professional lives as well as your personal lives.  It’s all fun and games until someone pokes an eye out *giggle*.  I now resume my regular demeanor and perverted nature…

I am eagerly awaiting my spoils to arrive because I made sure to buy exactly what I wanted. A new bedding set for my queen size bed, a bottle of L.A.M.B. perfume and a smokey-eye shadow palette by Sephora. I have to laugh because when he first called me he kept bitching that I had all this makeup and LUSH soaps on my wishlist. Well dippy, I only want the best and LUSH soap happens to be pretty fabulous on my skin.  So naturally when it came time to spend up that gift card I had to get the perfume and eye shadow with his money just to burn his ass.

Personally, I think he was just jealous that I get to use all of this pretty stuff and he has to be a closet bitch boy who begs me to “play with my ass Mistress, please?” Honestly, why do you care about what a Mistress has on her wishlist, it’s her stuff and it’s what makes her happy. I love to pamper myself so I want $10.00 cold-pressed soaps from Canada thank you very much lol. But today was even more funny because he was whining about how another Mistress(Ryan) took him for even more the night before and now he doesn’t know what to do.  He said he was too afraid to look at his credit card bill which is due to arrive on Monday. I wish I could be a fly on the wall when he gets that bill and nearly freaks with the amount he spend this billing cycle. God what a loser, but he loves being taken advantage of and I believe in the land of opportunity lolol. Anyway, I’m off to bed until tonight. Look for me later on at 11:00pm EST into the morning.