Disclaimer: I am not writing this article for one specific person. I had a conversation earlier this morning and the subject matter really got me thinking about situations like these where they can and do sometimes pop up. I am not trying to undermine any other Mistresses who have slaves that serve them in real time, or on the phone. The intent of this article is to make you, dominant or submissive to think and to remember always… safe, sane, and consensual.
You know as much as I don’t really know all of my callers personally, I do care enough for them to sometimes worry if they aren’t being pushed too far into something that they are not really emotionally ready to handle. Most responsible Mistresses when administering femdom fetish phone sex do adhere to ethics and make sure that they play responsibly. It can however be a bit of a challenge to know for sure if a sub is calling for advice because he is genuinely worried or because he just wants to play out the fear factor, and all of that is just fine.
As a phone mistress I do take everything that I hear with a grain of salt. I know there is a lot of shock value that gets said during a phone session to make the fantasy that much more thrilling and erotic. However sometimes there is a thrill that is being sought after where a lot of submissive men like to have photos taken and posted on the internet. Most of the time they are actually the ones responsible for posting them. That’s just fine if that is what they choose to do and know that they have the ability to take them down. We as Mistresses often talk about the submissive is here to please us and do as we say and that is for the most part correct. However, it does take a very responsible Mistress or Master for that matter to take that into their hands.
For all intents and purposes, you should never be exploited by a Mistress who values what she does and knows that exploitation is not what you need. Such things like creating paysite photo sessions of a submissive who is hired to do a fetish scene, perhaps feeling quite unsure about it but is urged to do it for the Mistress. There is a fine line that we walk when we have taken the responsibility for another into our hands. They look to us with trust and that line can be crossed all too easily for the sake of what we as Mistresses or Masters want.
I know for myself, whenever I am discussing a fantasy on a phone sex session, I am always mindful of what I am saying because a person’s subconscious is registering everything that person hears and thinks. I just think that power can be a slippery slope and sometimes people can become drunk with it. Others can get lost in the bliss of giving up control. So everyone just keep in mind about all of the things that you do in the realm of fetish phone sex or real fetish sex that can potentially damage your professional lives as well as your personal lives. It’s all fun and games until someone pokes an eye out *giggle*. I now resume my regular demeanor and perverted nature…
