French Maid Feminization

Begin your French maid training.

Begin your French maid training.

Every Mistress needs a French maid.

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The concept of French maid feminization is ubiquitous, and for good reason! Reducing a man to little more than a service slut in a pinafore isn’t just useful, it’s also demeaning, humiliating, and deliciously fun for any Mistress who loves emasculating men for their own amusement. I love working away in my home office and listening to the click, click, click of a sissy’s heels hurrying across my wooden floors. There are few things better than the sight of a frilly maid shimmying around my house with a duster in her hand and a plug in her pussy.

A French maid’s duties are endless.

Your main duties are obvious: washing the floors, doing the laundry, preparing dinner, etc. However, what separates a French maid sissy from an ordinary maid is your willingness to complete “other duties as necessary.” Those duties range from receiving humiliating over-the-knee spankings through your black and white ruffled panties all the way to being the center of attention at a sissy strap on party with six of my closest, cruelest girlfriends.

Uniforms on! It’s time to work!

Your French maid feminization begins bright and early with a long list of chores and a pair of heels that won’t be any help. Uniform inspections start at 7:00AM, and I don’t want to see a hair, frill, or ruffle out of place. It’s going to be a long day of hard, humiliating work, and I want a pretty sissy maid to look at.

Will you apply to be my French maid sissy?

The Psychology of Masochism

How do you express your masochism?

How do you express your masochism?

What is masochism, and why does it hurt so good?

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Masochism is generally defined as the receiving of pleasure from acts involving physical pain or psychological humiliation. Simply put, masochism makes the bad feel delectably good. While historical approaches to masochism have been stigmatic, modern psychology has loosened to accept consensual sadomasochism as an enjoyable expression of one’s sexuality.

As for why masochism is so enjoyable, the reasons are highly individualistic. For some, participating in physical or psychological pain can be a therapeutic escape. For others, the surrendering of your mind and body at the hands of a sadist can be a thrill and personal achievement. Whatever your motivation is, your masochistic tendencies are worth indulging.

Exploring your masochistic tendencies…

There is an endless list of ways to delve into your masochistic proclivities. Spanking, caning, flogging, CBT, electro-stimulation, erotic humiliation, and tickle torment are just a few examples of how you can incorporate pain and discomfort into your pleasure.

It’s not uncommon to introspectively wonder why does this turn me on? After all, pleasure at the expense of your pain sounds rather counterintuitive. However, I believe that the psychological underpinnings of many people’s interest in masochism are servitude and submission. If you enjoy pleasing your Mistress, it makes sense that you’d do so in any way you reasonably could, even if it means sacrificing your comfort.

Masochism as the ultimate submission…

As a sadist, I view a man’s masochism as the ultimate submission. To me, he is submitting his mental and physical comfort for my amusement and sexual gratification. As a sadist, it is my ethical responsibility to cause hurt, but no harm. It is a relationship predicated on mutual trust, reciprocal respect, and open, clear communication. And not to forget, it’s fucking sexy.

Why do you enjoy masochism?

Bid to Win My Sexy Stockings!

Stockings straight from a Mistress's wardrobe!

Stockings straight from a Mistress’s wardrobe!

It’s here! LDW’s first stocking auction!

Sissies, leg lovers, and stocking sniffers…it’s time! This is LDW’s first auction, so help make it a success! If you win, you’ll find yourself in possession of a pair of delectably worn sheer black seamed stockings from my personal collection.

Place your bids below!

You can review the rules in my previous post. The process is simple! Comment with your bid, and if you see someone bid more, comment with a higher bid! You do want these stockings, don’t you? Be sure to add your email address when you leave a comment; no one else can see it except me. It will be used to contact to you if you are the lucky winner of my sexy sheer black seamed stockings!

If you win, you get extra goodies!

Since this is our first trial auction, and we all want it to be a success, you get a special bonus. Mistress Vivian was generous enough to sweeten the pot with two unopened pairs of vintage stockings circa late 1970! Use them however you wish! Wear them, sniff them, stroke with them…but most of all, enjoy them!

The auction will end at 11:59PM ET on Saturday, June 13th.

Let the bidding (and stroking) begin!

Edit: 12:01AM June 14 – The auction has ended. Thank you all for playing! If you missed your chance, stay tuned. There might be more naughty things to come! And to the lucky, lucky winner…enjoy!

LDW’s First Stocking Auction

What will you do with my stockings?

What will you do with my stockings?

Do you want to own your Mistress’s stockings?

How many of you have fantasized about sniffing, feeling, or owning the silky stockings of the Stocking Mistress herself? From leg fetishists who admire stockings to sissies who wish to emulate their Mistress, I’ve been begged to share or sell items from my wardrobe of nylon delicates. Well, your chance is finally here! For the first time in LDW history, you’ll have the chance to own the very stockings that I wear on a day to day basis.

At 12:01AM on Friday, June 12th, I will post the auction post. You will have 48 hours to post your bid, and bidding will conclude at 11:59PM on Saturday, June 13th. The rules are listed below. Please comment if you have any questions!

Auction rules and guidelines:

A starting bid of $50 will be posted in the comment section.
Bids will be placed in a comment chain following the first bid. Simply press “reply” on that comment to add to the chain.
Each bid must increase by a minimum of $5, but there is no maximum.
The auction will be open for 48 hours.
Once the auction is closed, the highest bidder will be contacted for payment.
Payment must be made within 48 hours or the offer will be extended to the next-highest bidder.
The stockings will be discreetly packaged and mailed to the LDW office.
The office will then dispatch them to your address to maintain your privacy.

Make this successful, and you’ll see more Mistress items!

As a first time event, we’re considering this a trial run. If everything goes well and smoothly, you can expect to see many more soft, delicate treats from the Mistresses you adore. Perhaps one of your favorite Mistresses will offer her favorite pumps? Perhaps another will part with her silkiest panties? Make this a success, and we’ll see!

Be ready for bidding on Friday!

Your Phone Mistress’s Schedule Changes

Your phone Mistress has new hours!

Your phone Mistress has new hours!

Your phone Mistress is changing it up for the summer!

Effective tomorrow, June 8th, I will be changing my schedule to include some earlier hours. You will now be able to find me Monday-Friday from 3PM – 1AM Eastern. I will be off on Saturday and Sunday, and date specific changes to my schedule can be found on the “My Schedule” page of my blog. You can also see my daily availability, including any breaks, in my Yahoo Instant Messenger status message.

But don’t worry; you can always reach your phone Mistress by appointment.

If you’re not available during my regular sign on hours, we can still enjoy some phone sex fun (or phone torment, depending on your taste). To set up an appointment, simply email me at Marlena @ enchantrixempire . com with the time and date you’d like to schedule a phone sex session. I appreciate at least 24 hours notice, and I do my best to accommodate all appointment requests. You’re welcome to set up an appointment during my regular sign on hours as well, as I can be quite busy! That way, we’re guaranteed to speak at your preferred time! As usually, reach out via email or Yahoo Instant Messenger, and we’ll set it up.

How to contact your phone Mistress:

Here’s a reminder of the various ways you can reach me! For a reminder of my IM rules and guidelines, see this Guidelines for IMing blog post.

Email: Marlena @ enchantrixempire . com
YIM: enchantrixmarlena
Skype: enchantrixmarlena
Twitter: Empress_Marlena
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I look forward to speaking with you all soon!